Anxiety Disorders

This problem has been on my mind for a long time.  Anxiety disorders.  What exactly are they, how many different forms, and are you cured from them or just manage?

My oldest child works with austic children.  Their behavior can be a lot like those with anxiety disorders.  Do we label these people as having mental illness?  That sounds horrible.  There are many different illnesses of the mind.  

I truly believe that people are born to be good, except for those with a mental problem.  If a person later in life does what we deem as bad behavior it is because of experiences they had.

I have people in my life that have anxiety disorders.  I wish I could take it away for them.  I truly believe that you are not cured of it but learn to manage your thoughts.  Also, depending on how difficult the symptoms, a treating professional and maybe medication are needed.

Only the person suffering can made the decision to seek help.  We as family and friends can speak to them until we no longer have a voice; but they have to know there is a problem before getting help.  Until they seek help, you as their family or friend need to put up boundaries with them so that you aren't worn down by them to the point you might do something that is bad.  That is difficult if it is your child, parent or especially your spouse.

At one time I thought about going to school to be a psychologist.  I changed my mind because I realized I couldn't do that and be around the people in my life that have problems also.  I applaud those that do it for a career.

I hope this has sheed some light on what it is like for the friends or family of people with anxiety.  I also hope that you can be understanding and helpful with them.